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Bob Ong:

Mangarap ka at abutin mo ito. Wag mong sisihin ang sira mong pamilya, palpak mong syota, pilay mong tuta o mga lumilipad na ipis. Kung may pagkukulang sa’yo ang mga magulang mo, pwede kang manisi at magrebelde… Tumigil ka sa pag-aaral, mag-drugs ka, magpakulay ng buhok sa kili-kili… Sa banding huli, ikaw din ang biktima. Rebeldeng walang napatunayan at bait sa sarili.

Enjoy life! Learn how to play the game.

Growing Old

Please be patient, God is not finished with me yet.


We grow old and suddenly we want to hurry things

Don’t commit when you’re not ready.
Don’t keep others waiting endlessly.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.
Don’t bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.
To keep yourself warm, buy a jacket. In the long run, it will be less complicated and less costly.
Take care of yourself. Don’t wait for someone to take care of you.

No one completes you except you.


JWhenever I feel like studying, I lie down until the feeling goes away.

Forgiveness

Reviewing the Past.

Accept the past as past, without denying it or discarding it. Reminisce about it, but don’t live in it. Learn from it, but don’t punish yourself about it or continually regret it. Don’t get stuck in it.

What can I learn from it?What did I learn?
How does it help me right now?

Learn to forgive yourself and to forgive others.
Ask for forgiveness from others. Forgiveness can soften the heart, drain the bitterness, ad dissolve your guilt.

1. Forgive yourself for all the things you didn’t do that you should have and all the things that you did that you shouldn’t have.
2. Get rid of the guilt.

All the work you have actively done on yourself – all the experiences you have had in your life – can be used to maintain your composure. You have the resources. Draw on them.

Benefit from your success.
Learn from your mistake without judging yourself.

Bored

i am caren.

i am thin.

i want to talk.

hear me out!

this is me.

Sick

it's been weeks.
could it be that i am sick?

i cut my hair short

i decided to have my hair cut this afternoon. i realized i've been wearing the same hairstyle for a long time. i am dying to do this during school. unfortunately, i have to make a bun during those times... finally, i've been emancipated from duty...hehehe... i am free to do whatever i desire with my hair now. ;P
thanks for a lengthy vacay...

Getting Over an Infatuation

I am working on a plan on how to get over an infatuation. Cruel world. Why am I always into somebody who doesn't even know I exist. I feel so invisible and i don't like the feeling. Here are some tips (or gibberish, whatever you call it) to make life more bearable:

1. more likely, the guy that you want isn't into you. so why prolong the agony? scan the crowd. flirt with eligible bachelors.
2. try to have a make over - personality make over. real males, (i assume) also value the soul...the total self thingy.
3. improve communication skills. i know. it does sound overrated but it is effective (i bet!)
4. give yourself a break. it is not fair that you always do the day dreaming... let the male species salivate over you. a date with your girlfriends might do the trick!
5. carpe diem. i believe that we cannot change things over night. so while you're on the process, enjoy each stalking moment and face whatever obstacle you'll encounter ( you'll learn in time)

I wasting precious time over some worthless garbage...time to start working girl.